• runningmandz:

    There’s a difference between wanting to change your body to improve and strengthen it and wanting to change your body because you hate it. It’s important to know the difference because one of those will destroy you from the inside out.

    (via lyndez)

  • queenofthewest:

    shakethecobwebs:

    people will always call out people for saying “fuck skinny bitches” but when the diet commercial comes on, when the fat jokes are being made, when conversations about how fat people are detriments to society are underway, when a size 6 expects her size 26 friend to go with her to the mall even though there ain’t shit for her fat ass there, when girls are saying “i can’t cut my hair short because my face would look fat” & “when i learned that drinking alcohol could make you gain weight i felt like my life was over!!!”, and when family/friends/TOTAL STRANGERS are saying “we’re just worried about your health” y’all STAY quiet

    because body-shaming someone who “doesn’t deserve it” would be the worst thing you could do, right? 

    Yes. Where is the skinny bitch outrage when fat people are demonized on the internet and off. Speak up ya’ll, can’t hear ya.

    I’m really glad to see this discussion happening. Demonizing anyone for their body type is absolutely wrong, but let’s not forget who is hurt most by standards of beauty and body shaming. Let’s stop acting like a thin woman being told to eat a sandwich experiences the same kind or amount of judgement, discrimination, and dehumanization as a fat woman existing in a world that tells her at every possible turn that she shouldn’t.

    (via thinkimkindagay)

  • One of the best decisions I’ve ever made was to stop weighing myself.

  • slayboybunny:

    well yesterday i posted a selfie of me looking good in vertical stripes because the check out lady at the thriftstore where i bought it straight up told me i should reconsider my purchase cuz “vertical stripes are unflattering for your body type” and i got maybe 5 million bajillion messages and comments saying UM ACTUALLY ITS HORIZONTAL STRIPES THAT ARE UNFLATTERING so today im lookin really good in horizontal stripes too becuz im unstoppable and the world needs to understand that fabulosity knows no bounds :-)  

    (via beckpoppins)

  • "Our cultural fixation on female thinness is not an obsession with female beauty but an obsession with female obedience."
    Naomi Wolf in The Beauty Myth  (via punkradical)

    (Source: , via largeandlovely)

  • Anonymous said: Maybe if I get skinnier he'll love me.

    alonesomes:

    Your body is not a house that you have to clean up before guests come. Your body is yours and yours alone. If he doesn’t love you, then he doesn’t love you. Your body is not the offering or the deal you make, okay? I know that feeling, that thought process. Maybe if I just lost the weight, I’d be lovable. Stop it in its tracks. You are the most important person in your life. Love yourself more than the idea of being good enough for someone else. You are a force of nature, okay? Be here. In your body. You’re allowed.

  • lotsalipstick:

    no one can ever, ever tell me that I should feel bad or wrong for taking selfies and appreciating my appearance. I will not go back to hating my body and face so much that I couldn’t look at myself without wanting to tear my skin off. no one will ever have a valid reason for why I should feel ashamed of taking photos of myself. I will not put their feelings before my own. I will NOT give up the love I have for myself because it makes somebody uncomfortable or jealous. 

    (via largeandlovely)

  • alimarko:

Shout out to my roommate, Katie, for taking the babeliest photos of me ever.

I had a lot of negative body image feelings this week, so I’m going to unapologetically reblog my own selfies, bye

    alimarko:

    Shout out to my roommate, Katie, for taking the babeliest photos of me ever.

    I had a lot of negative body image feelings this week, so I’m going to unapologetically reblog my own selfies, bye

  • "

    How to talk to your daughter about her body, step one: don’t talk to your daughter about her body, except to teach her how it works.

    Don’t say anything if she’s lost weight. Don’t say anything if she’s gained weight.

    If you think your daughter’s body looks amazing, don’t say that. Here are some things you can say instead:

    “You look so healthy!” is a great one.

    Or how about, “you’re looking so strong.”

    “I can see how happy you are – you’re glowing.”

    Better yet, compliment her on something that has nothing to do with her body.

    Don’t comment on other women’s bodies either. Nope. Not a single comment, not a nice one or a mean one.

    Teach her about kindness towards others, but also kindness towards yourself.

    Don’t you dare talk about how much you hate your body in front of your daughter, or talk about your new diet. In fact, don’t go on a diet in front of your daughter. Buy healthy food. Cook healthy meals. But don’t say “I’m not eating carbs right now.” Your daughter should never think that carbs are evil, because shame over what you eat only leads to shame about yourself.

    Encourage your daughter to run because it makes her feel less stressed. Encourage your daughter to climb mountains because there is nowhere better to explore your spirituality than the peak of the universe. Encourage your daughter to surf, or rock climb, or mountain bike because it scares her and that’s a good thing sometimes.

    Help your daughter love soccer or rowing or hockey because sports make her a better leader and a more confident woman. Explain that no matter how old you get, you’ll never stop needing good teamwork. Never make her play a sport she isn’t absolutely in love with.

    Prove to your daughter that women don’t need men to move their furniture.

    Teach your daughter how to cook kale.

    Teach your daughter how to bake chocolate cake made with six sticks of butter.

    Pass on your own mom’s recipe for Christmas morning coffee cake. Pass on your love of being outside.

    Maybe you and your daughter both have thick thighs or wide ribcages. It’s easy to hate these non-size zero body parts. Don’t. Tell your daughter that with her legs she can run a marathon if she wants to, and her ribcage is nothing but a carrying case for strong lungs. She can scream and she can sing and she can lift up the world, if she wants.

    Remind your daughter that the best thing she can do with her body is to use it to mobilize her beautiful soul.

    "
  • 1000drawings:

    Apology letter to my body

    (Source: pinterest.com, via mlle-opossum)

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