• slayboybunny:

    well yesterday i posted a selfie of me looking good in vertical stripes because the check out lady at the thriftstore where i bought it straight up told me i should reconsider my purchase cuz “vertical stripes are unflattering for your body type” and i got maybe 5 million bajillion messages and comments saying UM ACTUALLY ITS HORIZONTAL STRIPES THAT ARE UNFLATTERING so today im lookin really good in horizontal stripes too becuz im unstoppable and the world needs to understand that fabulosity knows no bounds :-)  

    (via beckpoppins)

  • "Our cultural fixation on female thinness is not an obsession with female beauty but an obsession with female obedience."
    Naomi Wolf in The Beauty Myth  (via punkradical)

    (Source: , via largeandlovely)

  • Anonymous said: Maybe if I get skinnier he'll love me.

    alonesomes:

    Your body is not a house that you have to clean up before guests come. Your body is yours and yours alone. If he doesn’t love you, then he doesn’t love you. Your body is not the offering or the deal you make, okay? I know that feeling, that thought process. Maybe if I just lost the weight, I’d be lovable. Stop it in its tracks. You are the most important person in your life. Love yourself more than the idea of being good enough for someone else. You are a force of nature, okay? Be here. In your body. You’re allowed.

  • lotsalipstick:

    no one can ever, ever tell me that I should feel bad or wrong for taking selfies and appreciating my appearance. I will not go back to hating my body and face so much that I couldn’t look at myself without wanting to tear my skin off. no one will ever have a valid reason for why I should feel ashamed of taking photos of myself. I will not put their feelings before my own. I will NOT give up the love I have for myself because it makes somebody uncomfortable or jealous. 

    (via largeandlovely)

  • alimarko:

Shout out to my roommate, Katie, for taking the babeliest photos of me ever.

I had a lot of negative body image feelings this week, so I’m going to unapologetically reblog my own selfies, bye

    alimarko:

    Shout out to my roommate, Katie, for taking the babeliest photos of me ever.

    I had a lot of negative body image feelings this week, so I’m going to unapologetically reblog my own selfies, bye

  • "

    How to talk to your daughter about her body, step one: don’t talk to your daughter about her body, except to teach her how it works.

    Don’t say anything if she’s lost weight. Don’t say anything if she’s gained weight.

    If you think your daughter’s body looks amazing, don’t say that. Here are some things you can say instead:

    “You look so healthy!” is a great one.

    Or how about, “you’re looking so strong.”

    “I can see how happy you are – you’re glowing.”

    Better yet, compliment her on something that has nothing to do with her body.

    Don’t comment on other women’s bodies either. Nope. Not a single comment, not a nice one or a mean one.

    Teach her about kindness towards others, but also kindness towards yourself.

    Don’t you dare talk about how much you hate your body in front of your daughter, or talk about your new diet. In fact, don’t go on a diet in front of your daughter. Buy healthy food. Cook healthy meals. But don’t say “I’m not eating carbs right now.” Your daughter should never think that carbs are evil, because shame over what you eat only leads to shame about yourself.

    Encourage your daughter to run because it makes her feel less stressed. Encourage your daughter to climb mountains because there is nowhere better to explore your spirituality than the peak of the universe. Encourage your daughter to surf, or rock climb, or mountain bike because it scares her and that’s a good thing sometimes.

    Help your daughter love soccer or rowing or hockey because sports make her a better leader and a more confident woman. Explain that no matter how old you get, you’ll never stop needing good teamwork. Never make her play a sport she isn’t absolutely in love with.

    Prove to your daughter that women don’t need men to move their furniture.

    Teach your daughter how to cook kale.

    Teach your daughter how to bake chocolate cake made with six sticks of butter.

    Pass on your own mom’s recipe for Christmas morning coffee cake. Pass on your love of being outside.

    Maybe you and your daughter both have thick thighs or wide ribcages. It’s easy to hate these non-size zero body parts. Don’t. Tell your daughter that with her legs she can run a marathon if she wants to, and her ribcage is nothing but a carrying case for strong lungs. She can scream and she can sing and she can lift up the world, if she wants.

    Remind your daughter that the best thing she can do with her body is to use it to mobilize her beautiful soul.

    "
  • 1000drawings:

    Apology letter to my body

    (Source: pinterest.com, via mlle-opossum)

  • paintgod:

    it’s hard 2 be sad about ur body when you think of it as a landscape. you don’t criticise a mountain for being too big, or a valley for being too winding, and no one ever complains about the vastness of the sea. u are part of the earth and u are so beautiful friends.

    (via patriciachillcollins)

  • venelite:

    2013

    This was the year when I was brave enough to upload a full figure picture of myself

    this was the year I was brave enough to photograph myself nude

    this was the year I got my first tattoo, three tattoos

    the year I pierced my bellybutton after always thinking that only skinny people got their bellybutton pierced

    the year I blogged and didn’t delete my blog

    the year I cut my hair short

    the year I found out what I wanted to do

    this was the year I left the nest

    the year only self-harmed twice

    the year I found out how loved I am

    (via queenmerbabe)

  • I shouldn’t have to scream “I LOVE MY BODY” every time I leave my house in order for other people to find it acceptable.

    The respect that others give me and my body should not depend on the ever-changing status of my self-image. Loving myself isn’t always easy, and it sure as hell doesn’t help when people act like the only way for others to find me attractive is if I feel great about how I look 100% of the time.

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