How much time have you spent talking to some cishet dude when you didn’t want to just because you’re scared of what his reaction would be if you declined?
…and that’s what it means to be socialized into fear and constant male accommodation as a means of survival
For real though, only 2-8% of rape accusations turn out to be false (depending on where you get your info). And keep in mind that it’s estimated that at least 95% of rapes go unreported. And in many situations, women recant their accusations because of threats, or disrespectful treatment from the justice system. So when you sit in front of me and say “false rape allegations are just as bad as rape itself!” and “I have no reason to believe her so I’m not going to” I hope you know what you’re saying. Because you’re saying that it’s just as bad that a handful of (mostly) men are falsely accused of rape each year as it is that one rape will happen every two minutes in the US alone. You’re saying that you’re just as angry about the ~2% of false accusations as you are about the ~97% OF RAPISTS WHO NEVER FACE ANY KIND OF JUSTICE FOR THEIR CRIME(S). And, worst of all, you’re saying that if a woman or girl you know tried to confide in you that she was raped, instead of supporting her you’d be just as concerned that she might be lying. And that makes you a shitty, dangerous person who supports rape culture.
you know, i would probs believe thin privilege was a thing if fat men got treated nearly as poorly fat women are treated
pls stop bastardising the concept of privilege and oppression. white privilege, male privilege, het privilege are things. being more fuckable is not a privilege, and fat women get dehumanised bc they’re women who don’t stereotypically appeal to men aka misogyny
I think the phenomenon you’re noticing here is that privileges and lack there off intersect??? Because while I agree that fat men do not face anything like the kind of stigma and discrimination that fat women face, there are some things in this world that are just harder on fat people. Seats on transportation being too small, difficulty finding clothing, and not receiving appropriate medical care are a few I can think of off the top of my head. I agree that all of these issues are thrown into harshest relief for fat women (and more issues arise for those people), but I think that’s because fat stigma/shaming and misogyny intersect in very specific and malicious ways.
the thing is literally NO ONE cares if u dont think leggings count as pants. no one. no one cares. everyones gonna keep wearing them as pants. theyre pants. no one cares what u think
okay kids, back to regularly scheduled programming
which means if you came to my ask box to defend jared leto, your message is going to be deleted and I’m gonna block you because I don’t feel safe being contacted by rape apologists bye
Anonymous asked: can you show us the evolution of your hair?
okay this is freshmen year of hs to now: